arkady39 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Thanks, the feeling is mutual. You should be able to find my on myspace and facebook - just search Arkady or Arkady Itkin in California

arkady39 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

If that person is not interested, you leave him/her alone. They know you are, so if they ever have any interest in you, it would be their turn to make a move.

blendfold (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

By crossing paths, I meant, wthat you are always in each other's presence, i.e. at work, or they are your friend's friend and you keep seeing them.

arkady39 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Thanks! What do you mean by "crossing paths?"

blendfold (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Great advice once again my friend...However, what if that person does not seem to show genuine interest in you and yet you are always crossing paths?

arkady39 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Thanks, I am glad you find this advice useful, and hey - it's much better finding out this now than never. I am sure you know what I mean.

Zulnic (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

You are so true about this. Rejection is hard, and is one reason why I'm shy around women. Women appear to like me, but now I know that a lot of women have shown interest in me over time, and I've failed to get a conversation started. I now know of the signs I need to look for from watching your videos. Hopefully, this time around, it won't be so bad. I only wish I new the information you have to share earlier. It would have helped so much. Wish me luck.

arkady39 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

You stop, analyze your behavior honestly (perhaps involving some of the people who know you) and try to figure out why you might be getting rejected before you move any further.

arkady39 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

Only when you learn to not care at all about this and their perception of you and start treating it as a learning experience and trying to understand why you are being rejected and learning how to become a more attractive guy, things will change. My site is a good place to start.

wwekid941 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

ok i got rejected by1. Christina (she told her friends)2. Sara (told her friends as well)3. Alanna (told everyone)4. Cassy ( told friends) its hard to do this cuz i know i will get rejected and its embarrassing because everyday i have 2 deal with getting made fun of by all of them and it becomes a rumour in school what do i do?