djred5555 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

i couldnt agree more autospeed.

littlenemo5 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

true..i agree with that..

autospeed (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

I agree with what you guys have said about nice guys getting passed over too often and ignored. But having been in that position before, the one thing I can say that nice guys often need to be more decisive and bit more agressive.. They sit back and try to be nice and respectful, and end up losing the chance to do something because they're too nice, when in fact they are the right guy for her.. And once your stuck in the friend zone get out! there's no point in waiting for her to come around..

littlenemo5 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

nice way to put it.but still one thing.if they wanna have fun they also give up the right to complain when they get cheated on..and not all good guys arent fun..its just that most people look for the flashy things in people instead of looking for the good in them which leads them to get in bad relation ships.

kdrums1288 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

women do have esteem problems but its a power thing..dey c da thug wit da money da car da respect and etc...but a normal nice guy dats tryin 2 get da schoolin get da friend award...bn der done dat...not a fun postion to b in wen she only talks bout there problems

littlenemo5 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

yeah its understandable..but meh it still life and thats how it is^_^

KawaiiPny (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

but women usually have issues with self esteem n they take what they think they deserve some think they deserve the world n they truly do but the women that dont need to realize their self confidence n how strong they are n realize "wow i dont deserve the things my man does i deserve better" x] but this is just from a girl's point of view

littlenemo5 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

its life..its just life..we live we die..and another day passes..

azule45 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

DAMN. i agree with you so much. most women go for the "thug" type that have a history of cheating and will OBVIOUSLY do it again. in the process they pass up on the "real" brothers that want to treat they women as queens and not objects. as a man, i find that confusing.

littlenemo5 (November 30, 1999 at 12:00 am)

you know its funny..and im not trying to dis what your saying or anything or trying to make myself seem high and mighty..but the type of guys hes singing about the ones that will love you no matter what and wont cheat usually get passed over like the green beans on thanksgiving day most women at least in my generation. im 19 btw so whatever the genration im in usually go for the guys that obviously are gonna cheat on them..it sad really when i hear them say OMG he cheated on me.its just dumb-_-